BIG dreams, BIG goals, and HUGE aspirations despite their size are often not realized. Why? Sometimes we're missing key elements that would make it easier to achieve what we aspire: training, education, and the right connections. However, more often than not, sheer belief in one’s self is what’s really missing.
You can have the best ideas, the biggest dreams, and defined goals, but if you don’t wholeheartedly believe in your ability to turn them into reality you’ll have a hard time fulfilling them. A lack of belief can show up in a number of ways but most commonly in self-speak:
· “Why me? Why would anyone believe in me?"
· “Will this really work?”
· “Am I just a day dreamer?”
· “This isn’t really going to work.”
The challenge with this type of self-speak is that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You will go out into the world with your game face on to pitch your BIG idea, but your own lack of belief will transfer to others and your idea will fall flat. Or worse, someone will see the opportunity in your idea and you’ll talk them out of it because you lack belief in your own ability to deliver.
Get out of your own way and stop blocking the amazing moments you're destined for! On the other side of doubt is the life you’re meant to have! Get out of your head, let go and whole heartedly believe that the life you dream of is meant for you!
Next time you are ready to take on your BIG idea look in the mirror and say
· “Success is a decision. I’m a decision maker. My decision is to be successful. Success is mine!”
· “Those who dream while awake create realities that many can only dream of.”
· “I‘m the best person to share my big idea with the right person because there’s no one better suited for this task than me!”
P.S.
I believe in you! If you find that you’re in need of a little extra belief, you can borrow mine and you don’t even have to give it back! ~ Jazmine R. Henderson